We live in the world where there is a lot of discouragement than encouragement. A lot of people like to put others down just because they can’t do it or cannot see it’s possible for them. Do not be like them. Choose to be in the encouragement group. Learn to believe and speaking faith into others. Everyone is craving for approval and encouragement. You may not know it, but you can be someone’s reason for success or greatness just because you believe in their dreams. The more you see the best and encouraging that person, the more you open the light into that person’s life. You will not know how your little encouragement can make a difference in his or her life.
It doesn’t matter how long you have known that person, it doesn’t matter what their present condition looks like or what mistakes they have done in the past, just be bold and believe in them. You can agree with me how you feel excited also if a person listens and believes in your dream. I came to know that most people have big dreams and they don’t pursue them because they think they are crazy, no one else thinks like that, they need to know that they are not crazy and what they are dreaming about is possible. They need people like you and me, who we now know how important it is to encourage other people.
The more you encourage others and speaking faith to them, the more you attract good things to yourself. Let me caution you though, do not for once be intimidated by someone else’s dream and become scared and jealous that he or she is going to do great things than you. This will kill your inner peace and freedom. Appreciate others and don’t look back. You are collecting your own blessings by doing that. Because whether you like it or not there are people who are good looking and successful than you. Love yourself, appreciate yourself but do not be selfish by not appreciating others. You don’t want to be insecure. Save your energy and time for things that do really matter in life. Being insecure will drain you off a lot of energy.
Your choice on building another person up or down is so powerful than you know. A lot of people have been dragged down, lost hope and fail to achieve their dreams just because one person didn’t approve or believe in them. Most people cannot let go of other people’s opinion. They carry those opinions with them for years and they make them reality by believing in them. It takes mentally strong people to ignore the negative things said to them.
I frankly do not think you’re a person who want your words to be a curse to someone rather than a blessing. Stand for what you believe in, even if there is no one in the room showing support to that person, just do it because it’s the right thing to do. Don’t be the majority who are hypocrites, when a person succeeds is when they pretend to know him or her and they feel ashamed and sorry for what they said against him. Choose to be in peace so as you can live a life of freedom. No one has control of the words you speak. Use them in a positive way.
“Real strength is building others up. Weakness is tearing others down”
People will not remember what you did or said but they will remember how you made them feel. Be sincere with you words, make them feel important and special. Be the reason for someone’s achievement.